"We have all the essential qualities for survival in the wild and for success in battle, but we run like hell from talking about our feelings."
Men can be a severe father in front of his children; men can be a trustworthy husband in front of his wife; men can also be a adamant people in front of his friends. But who can hear men's sadness? How can men show their true feelings?
Do not hidden your feeling any more. Men are hunman and have some emotion when they meet frustration. It is will not lose your face if tell your bad feelings to your wife and your cloest friend. Those people who love you will never laugh at you, on the other hand, they hope you can tell them your bad feelings so they can know how to help you, how to make you happy.
In psychology, men will be easy to confused and sadness when they meet midlife crisis(Male happens during 55~65)(General Psychology) so a normal midage man should have some sadness or blue appearance. Show your feelings to your family and friends,they are willing to help you
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To be a husband crying in his wife's arms is not a shame. (Leslie)
How many husbands can throw themselves into their wives arms and seek for comforts from these women with natural motherhood?
I am always wondering why men give up all possibilities to get the biggest supports and warmest condolence from their wives.
Women are born with motherhood and their hearts are springs of kindness and affection. However, wives are always the last people husbands are willing to go to for their stress, failure, defeat, pain, etc.
What you said about men's psychological crisis at their midlife is absolutely right. If at their midlife, they still haven't learned any way to express their feelings to either their wives or friends, they will be really problematic.
So men should start early.
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