Oct 12, 2008

Man and their hidden feelings (Avish)

"Males have good friendship then females"
In the article "Man and their hidden feelings" by Richard Cohen, says that man don't have true friends, they don't have enough cofident on themselves, and it also says that many males hide their feelings. They never share with anyone.
Few thing whatever wirter said in the article is true about man. But i completely disagree with the writer's points, whatever he made.
Well in the beginning of the article, writer says man don't have good friendships as woman. But actually it's totally wrong as per my thinking. Males have good friendship then females, Because man always share everything with eachother,l whether he is on playground or at home or at party or at lunch and dinner or at study. Whenever any male go at anyplace, he prefer to go with his dude and if they go everywhere together then what can be remain secret between those two guys. Another thing i would like to mention is that, many woman always prefer to go along. So may possible that womans have more secret then man. Many males don't share their feelings with woman often, because actually woman don't have zip on their mouth. They just speak it out in front of anyone. may be because of that man just share their feelings amony themselves.
About being confident, males has more confidence then females. There are few examples which proves all this. Even in schools boys gets more attention then girls. There's no doubt about it. Reams of studies showa thatteachers, from preschools to grade school, interact more with boys then girls.Especially in grade school, boys are called more often. They get more constructive criticism, and they are asked more challenging questions. may be because boys are more comfident then girls. It's a basic truth that when any science teacher need help with demonstrations in front of their class, four out of five times they call on a boy rather than a girl. May be because teacher trust more boys than girls.

2 comments:

Leslie said...

hahahaha (Leslie)

It seems you are a warrior to safeguard the image of man. Concerning whether it's men or women who may have real friendship, I can't agree with you in either way that one is better than the other. I should say both are possible to have real friendship, but in different ways. About secrets, it is generally admitted that girls always have more secrets, but boys might have bigger secrets, or even schemes.

As for the second point, confidence, I couldn't find anywhere in the article about it. That's why I think it's hard to make any comment on that. What I want to point out is that girls' shyness stops them from doing a lot of things, and it might not be a matter of confidence.

Leslie said...

Avish.
i am not trying to be safeguard the image of man. But i think that's true that most of time always boys have good friendship among themselves.
About confidence i just wrote it because it came to my mind when i was posting my post. Many ladies in U.S. are more confident then males, but i think in the rest of world it is totally opposite to this.