Oct 12, 2008

Man and Their Hidden Feelings (Yingshan Hu)

"My friends have no friends. They are men. They think they have friends, and if you ask them whether they have friends they will say yes, but they don’t really."

This quote is from an article “Man and Their Hidden Feelings”. Men really have no true friends? I think that is not absolute. But men like to hide their feelings is correct.Men are not like women, women like to share their feelings to her friends, but men usually have hidden their feelings. They have friends, but they are all men, between men and men, they can play with each other, they can drink with each other, they can watch TV or movie with each other, but they are seldom share their feelings to each other. I know men like to call each other brothers, I believe still have true friendships between men and men, and also believe have true friendships between men and women. Friendship is very important to people, especially a really friendship.
Men, don’t hidden your feelings, share your feelings to someone you want to share. You can have a lot of friends, but at least you need to have one close friend, when you feel something do not oppress, you can talk to your close friend, I think that is a good way to make you feel more better.

1 comment:

Leslie said...

True friendship between men and men, and men and women, then what about women and women (Leslie)

It seems that you mentioned the friendship between men and men, and between men and women, but not between women and women.

Is that what you mean?

Can you explain why you think so and what you think women should do, then?

If you say women usually share their feeligns to her friends, then why doesn't it bring any real friendship?