Oct 20, 2008

We Could't Change What Nature Gives Us (xiaoshu zhu)

Recently, in the class, we talked about men and women. When the professor asked us that was it unfair that women had to stand back of the men, I got something to say. There is nothing right and wrong about men and women are different. Nature gives men and women two different characters. For example, men prefer doing the things are very powerful and using technologies. Women like to do something very soft and emotional. Men like enjoying the honor to protect others and women would like to be protected. We cannot say this is wrong or not, and we just play our roles on our places exactly. I prefer to say this is our culture, and it existed for its reasons. As a woman, I know women and men are different, but I don’t think women are weaker than men. I like to stand back of men, and I don’t feel shamed because that’s also a job for me. The position of men and women are different , but they are all important.

2 comments:

Leslie said...

Demand them to take us seriously so that we can take ourselves seriously, too.

Of course men and women are both important. The only complaints of women is that women are not taken as important as men. Standind behind men doesn't make women less important, but standing behind men makes men think women are less important. Women have no complaints to stand behind men, and willing to stand behind men, as Xiaoshu said, but men should forget the logic that women who stand behind men makes men stand ahead.

No men is more important than women.

Leslie said...

you mentioned that " i like to stand back of men". but you don't feel shamed becuase that's also a job for me.
so you mean you want to be behind of the men? which part?
i think you wanted to say that you want to be protected by men? hmm.

i wanna ask something,
so you said that just nature gives men and women two different characters. so WHY? nowadays women are saying that they want to have the same equalty as men? they always aregue about that.


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