The Achievement of Desire--Shengming Jin

I disagree author’s idea about this article. His idea is talking about the education is not so good like traditional view in people’s mind. The author is a successful people in the life, because his good education in school. But in other side, because of his education, he lost lots of other thing, relatives, loves.
But I don’t think so. There are both sides in the all of the things. Everything have positive and negative. We can say there is something always good. “Relativity” people cannot live in a very perfectly position forever. People wants to gain something, must lose something as cost.
Rich people have don’t care about money, stay in a very comfortable life. But they might be worry about something else, relative and some other things, they aren’t so happy like we think. The poor people maybe worry about money, but they should have something good that rich people don’t have. They stay tried but they are happy.
So I disagree the author’s idea. The author have good education and want to keep all the things he lost, that’s impossible. There are no any perfect achievement. If people want to be a success, must need to give up something. The real achievement is people think where the most important is for them. Give up the things they don’t need, gain the things really important for them.