Listen to who you love and who you hate!
We are young, so we are impatient. It is easier for us to ignore what others said. Whatever the information is important or not, we should keep on listening. The article "Tell me more" provides many reasons about listening, and also the ways of listening. When I am reading, I am also regretful as Jay Park, because we have similar experience.
For the people who you love, the reasons of listening are to respect them and also provide chances for yourself to be listened next time. We usually think we are correct, and say "yeah, I see, I know that". This is not correct, because we are not respecting others. They may feel we are not polite. And next time, they can also ignore our words like we did. In addition, maybe we have ignored some useful experience.
For the people you hate, by listening your relationship may be improved. The reasons we hate people are various. Sometimes, serious and bad relationship may be caused by some misunderstanding. By listening we can know more about what we imagine. At the same time, we can re-create his/her personality in our impression. In another way, every people has his/her positive parts of personality.
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yeah, Listening is strongly affecting to individuals as well as relationship between people and people..
- JunHyung Park-
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