Sep 27, 2009
long overdue/YEN-CHIEH CHEN
Long overdue (Yiling Feng)
There is no denying; racism is still in the world. As the author, she is facing in her lives. But it has a bigger change than before. Everyone needs to open his heart, which can accept more different people and culture.
Although I never meet such a serious racism in my life, some small things in our lives, which prove we need to open our heart to everyone and everything. In my middle school, we must live in the school. But past one month, my roommates quarreled about some little things. I think if we could trust others to open our mind, this quarrel would not have in our life. So, I think everybody should have a trust to others and open your mind to solve questions in our lives.
Long overdue (Heejin Kim)
I thought many various things about "overdue" But I knew the meaning after reading the article and the author's purpose. Naomi is an Arab American and she heard bad things about Arab in England. She was very angry and mad for that kind of saying, she could not tell anything to them. actually I have same experience with Naomi.
When I came in New York, I did not speak English very well.
I lived in dormitory and I met many international students at there.
But one of my international friends told me about East Asia. She had kind of bad bias. she thought Asian people are poor and they have very low culture. I was very mad but I could not say anything because I did not want to argue with her. My English speaking skill was very low and I did not how to confute with her. It became "long overdue".
I had same emotion with author at that moment.
And I realized we need to lean about another countries culture and we have to recognize that different countries have different culture.
overdue- Kai-Hsun Yu
Kai-Hsun Yu
Long Overdue for me (Yanjun Li)
I have a bad habit which is I don’t do something until the due time is coming soon, like now I just have one hour to write this impression of this Long Overdue. This bad habit let me lose many important things. Such as miss the chance for part-time job, some food be overdue can’t to eat. And don’t to see my grandpa until he died. So many things let me so compunction.
I don’t review the knowledge which I learn in school without delay, then to do the homework in a short time to catch the time. I don’t change the clothes until the cold weather is coming then make me have a cold. I don’t eat some food until my stomach is so ache. Even though I don’t tell my parents how much I miss them until crying in my bed along. When I was a child I get this bad habit let I miss so many chance go play with others then stay along by myself. So sometimes my character has a little strange like liveliness but stay along so much time.
Through this article I know I want to change myself about action for my life, I must do something in time then don’t let me regret when the time is pass and the people was gone. I will to call my parents and friends so much I miss them. Don’t let them angst me. And I positive to the life and make it better and better.
long long overdue around me (Yumiha Yano)
I'm from Japan. Japan was not open to other countries before, and still there are very exclusive people who don't like people who are from other countries. once my japanese friend told me that she doesnt like other asian country people and doesnt want to be friends with them because they are rude and rough. i wondered why she can think in that way. of course japanese are also asians, and all of asian people are not rude. it depends on their personarity. i have a grandfather who is from taiwan and now he lives in japan. so what she said made me sad.i really felt that this kind of person meke the country very closed. i didnt say anything at the time, but i will not forget what she said.
The things which they think it is nothing may be really crucial and can hurt someone uncontiously. It is really dangerous. So this article and my experience make me think that i shoud think what I want to say over before I do it not to deny other cultures and to solute the overdues around us.
Speak out (Xiaojie Pang)
As far as I have fall in love with my boyfriend. At the beginning of that time, I still used “my way” get on with him. When we quarrel about something, I have never really expressed my feeling; I always said I’m ok. My boyfriend was obsessed with play computer games. Since that, he always forgot to do a lot of things. In fact, I have already cannot stand it anymore. But I don’t show it, no one got it. I just angry with myself. Over time, I still not communicated with him. Eventually, we parted from each other. After that, I have met him again, and I talked with him like a friend. He said to me that he likes to talk with me, but I always ignore him; In order to avoid quarrel with me, he just could spend times to play computer games.
From that conversation, I start to speak out my feeling. I found I am happier than before. As for me, that is a real way to get along with others.
long overdue (SUHYUN HUH)
Some people would not tell him that is wrong, but some people would.
most people do not tell him that he is wrong because people do not want to make him feel good so people lie to him with smile.
In Korea, we are similar with China. It is rude to tell someone.When i was in high school, one of my freind was answer my teacher's question but he was answering wrong. Nobody did not tell my friend that was wrong. someone had to tell him that is wrong.
In my opinion, people need to change thier mind. If someone doing wrong, we have to tell him. even though if he does not like you.
Long Overdue( Li, Yanqiong)
I remember that one of case in my life. When I studied in the high school, I had one of my friends who called Melo. She had a boyfriend who called Jay. They fell in love each other for 1 year. One day, I went to club to have fun, suddenly, I saw Jay seated over there in the club and holding a girl. I really do not know that girl, but I can sure that she is not my best friend, Melo. After that, I met Melo in my house, she told me that how she loved her boyfriend, and she also had a plan which is getting married. Unbelievable, at that moment, I really want to tell her the truth. But I scared that I will make her feel hurt. So I decided to give up. However, her boyfriend broke up with her. She felt so sad and she did not eat anything for a few days. At that time, I knew that, if you know something about someone which one you really care about, you should just say it. Do not bury it. If some one which you do not care, you can just ignore them. Try you best to protect your relationship with your friends, and find a best time to tell them what you know about them. Always remember that do not become “Long Overdue.”
Red Flags( Ting Shu)
I always see the "red flags" on campus, but never pay attention to what is talking about. I thought those problems would never happened to me.
I had a roommate who grew up in America but her family is a incomer of America. She looks nice and she is nice. At the beginning we were fine. I did not talk with her too much because I do not what to talk? She goes home every weekend, I had full classes every day. so we do not actually have time to talk. Only in the nights if I finished my homework. A night, she brought some of her friends back to our dorm. Her friends are nice and funny, but I need to do my works. I putted the earphone on my ear, then started to work on my homework. I hope I talked to her I need to finish my homework without voices I just can't. I acted like I didn't hear anything, then I finally finished my homework at 3am after she went out with her friends. I had a million times was thinking about can I talk to her to do not bring friend back after 12 clock, but I just can not open my mouth because my mom told me to be tolerate. We didn't say anything to each other during the semester, because both us do not know what to say. We are like strangers in school. If I said to her I do not like she brings her friends back to the dorm when I was going to sleep or I am doing my homework. She might knows I hate it and would not do it more. but I never say out. If I did, it could help the problems between us.
Never regret(by allen)
Long Overdue (Young Ho Yoon)
Throughout such as Nye’s article, I think some expressions like ‘Don’t give yourself the go-ahead for the next level if there are things that are long overdue’, ‘Going back to basics was long overdue’, ‘The bottom line is that a new brand strategy is long overdue’, ‘We should take long overdue steps to get our business back on the right track’, and 'We can’t take advantage of a new opportunity unless we take care of the long overdue homework first' are used today.
Long overdue-junjie
Sometimes I will get some problems. For example, when my friend is talking about something he knows to everyone, I find there is a incorrect thing in his opinion. I am 100 percents sure that he is wrong, but I can not point out his mistake when he is talking even after he finish his talking. I think it is because of face.
In China, people are very concerned about their own face which means you can not point out others mistake when there are some people beside them. It will make them losing faces. This is the reason why I don’t say anything and just smile.
It is impolite to interrupt others when they are speaking, but after their speaking I always can not find a suitable topic to correct those things.
I think it does’t matter. It is not a very serious thing for us. As happy as we live. lol
Junjie
Thoughts after reading long overdue
That was a winter 4 years ago, my girlfriend said she wanna separate with me. At that time, I said nothing, we just faced to face. She said I have to go, and then she disappeared in the end of the street. At that time, I think I should say something like “I highly value our love, but if you really want to separate, I.….” Maybe I could save our love. I repented having said nothing.
But sometimes, silence means more than words in some situations. That was my second finally exam in Wuhan university. My classmate sat beside me who was the grandson of the university master. When the exam almost finished, he got a peek on my paper. The teacher saw that and said I was cheating. I was so angry, cause I did nothing. And the teacher was saying some bad words all the time. I got angrier, and said to him “why he was cheating, but you said I was cheating, because I always miss your class? because he is the university master’s grandson? You are a snob.” I rend the test paper into pieces and went out the classroom. I was repented of that. If I didn’t like that, perhaps I would still in that university which was the fifth in China.
In my opinion, to learn how to treat the things in different situation is a lesson we have to study in our lives.
Every one should be admired(Yi Feng Wang)
Keep the world in mind? (Boning Zhang)
Be equal (dan lu)
As the ethnic discrimination is a long history problem, many people struggle for it. Not only happens in America, but also in many other countries. In 1862, Lincoln liberated black slaves. It was completely buried in the slavery in the United States. The long overdue emancipation of slaves finally became true. However, the discrimination still exists in modern society. Although there are many laws to restrain, the phenomenon still occurs from time to time.
Equity is a long overdue thing. People can’t choose what their countries are, they can’t choose what color they are, they can’t choose what families they born. However, they can choose the way they live. Many people try their best to prove themselves. They want to be accepted. They don’t want their status affect their performance. On the other hand, we can’t deny any person by personal issues. We should treat everyone equal. Society is a big family. It needs every people to make contributions. People should unite rather than mutual repel. However, I know, it actually needs time.
Don't be late (Chung-Chih Chi)
People are always regretting what they have done or what they haven’t done. Many people are trying to hide their feeling and thought. Even if they are angry about what their friend have done to them, they might just keep silence or decide not to talk about it to their friend. But, they don’t know how much they would pay later. Misunderstanding and mistake are easy to happen in people’s communication. They are not hard to solve, but it depends on whether you solve it on time or not.
When I was in junior high school, Bill was one of the best friends. He was smart and everyone in the class liked him. We went to school together, we had fun together and we studied together. I thought we can still keep this friendship after we graduate from junior high school. But it didn’t. After graduation, I never talked with him again. When I called him, he never picked up the phone. When I send email to him, he never sent me back. I had no idea what happened with us. I tried to contact with others to see if they know something. Until two years ago, I finally figured out why he did this to me. One of his friends told me that he lost his wallet on the graduation and he thought the thief was me because I was the only one who opened his bag. I thought if he told me what he was angry about, the problem would be solved easily and our relationship would continue.
From now on, if my friend is angry about me, or I feel something is wrong between us, I would ask him immediately and try to solve any misunderstanding as soon as possible because the longer the problem exists, the worse the relation will be. Even if you may have a fight with your friends when you talk to them about any problem, it is always worth to solve problems on time.
I Hate It but I Can't Say (Hao Su)
Long Overdue (Lian Chen)
Don’t let prejudices and misunderstanding blind our eyes(Jianjie.zhao)
The article “long overdue”, start with author’s sight to an abandoned garden, the gardener is sitting is the garden, weeds flourished grow there. What is that weeds imply to? That is prejudices to Middle East people from Americans; it has existed there for longtime and never changes.
We all have favors or preferences on something, especially on people. Some people we like them just because we can comprehend their behavior, and we hate some because what they do is ridiculous to us. As we know, American is a country combines the people from every corner of the world, where the different cultures and the races introjected. Therefore, some conflicts and misunderstandings happen here. As we live on this would, we should not let prejudice and misunderstood blind our eyes. What we can do is to interpret others behavior by learning their culture, and not just judge them on some stereotypes. That’s the way how we approach success, and the way let us become more objective rather than subjective.
What I think of “black men and public space” (Fang-yu LIN)
LONG OVERDUE( YING YI.CHEN)
One of my friend, I knew him since high school. Actually, he is not a good student but clever. That time, our relationship were very close. He was joined the bad group at that time. But I didn't tell them he had to study hard and not went there anymore. However, the stones stuck in the throat. I didn't say that for him. I was really regret. After one year, someone was killed him on the street and also his friends. When I heard the news, I was surprised if I tell him not going there anymore, maybe our relationship were still until now. I regret his death.
According to the this events, I learn a lesson from him. If I want say something for my friend, I have to tell them not just stones stuck in my throat that will become “ long overdue”.
difference and understanding - Long Overdue (SooHyeon. Kang)
Before I leave my country to study abroad, I didn’t think about the problem seriously. But now, especially after reading this essay, I really insist that we need to know and learn about other countries since we are living in a world to be more and more global and it’s helpful to broaden their view and diversity.
As one of the tools, the internet gives insight into what values are important to a country. A lot of opinions and videos online show clearly what societies esteem and what they look down upon. So, the Internet is a great to learn other places from the comfort of one’s home. A few people have the opportunity to travel around the world, but people become better familiar with the values and social structures of different cultures through the Internet. This method of global enrichment is both educational and enjoyable.
My opinion about "Long Overdue" Natalia Ushak
Thoughts after reading "Long Overdue"
After reading the article “Long Overdue”, I keep my silence for a while. I am not sure if I were the writer, I would choose to say back or just leave it. It is hard to against in front of the crowd. Even sometimes, it is also not easy to controvert with someone you do really care so much in your close relationships. Probably it is easily way for us to say nothing. Because we may want to pretend nothing and just let it go, at least, we can still keep the harmony in the face. But deep in our mind, we still cannot convince ourselves there is nothing happened. The vexation still bother in our mind or fret in our heart until one day we couldn’t take it and suddenly burst out and might also scare. It’s just like in the article “ Long Overdue” mentions about the weeds getting more and more than the grass until too hard for us to fix it. Maybe it’s better to start earlier to fix the crucial problem, at least it won’t get worse afterwards. Still, if everybody can make their hearts grow larger and learn to be polite and more respectful to other person’s point of view, with much more care for others, even during an argument. I believe it’s will be much easier to understand the difference with the sympathy. I do like the writer mention in the article about what did Aldous Huxley say toward the end of his life when someone asked him for advice? His answer is “ Be a little kinder to one another.” I think that is very simple but great wisdom understanding for us to learn.
Proud to be Korean.
Naomi, even though her long overdue left her a painful memory, I felt how she loved her country and how bravely she standed for her nation by writting.
What am I? Shame and embarassing emotions evoked from my inner side.
I'm from South Korea which is the only nation devided into two.
Yes. Sadly, I have to clearly say I'm from South since many people would be aware of North Korea.
Back to my junior high school year, I remember how I was sad about my country's segregation.
When I was watching people on TV who were originally from North and crying out for their families who still live in North, I also cried. I also remember all students sang together about unity of Korea.
However, now, when politicians declared North Korea as one of the most dangerous country in this century, I do not feel anything. Even though I used to believe that North Korea was part of my country, there wasn't any long overdue when people were describing North Korea as most dangerous country in this centry.
Probably my heart for North Korea is long overdue.
This article helped me to realize how my heart has been ignorant in these days.
My mind has been refocused to my country's origin and I wish Korea to be one again someday.
Sep 26, 2009
Speak out loudly (Susan Chen)
After I have read the article, I found that I have many common points with the author. When some other people are talking about the bad things behind me or even in front of me, of course I will feel extremely uncomfortable. However, I always chose to forget it. Because I am an ordinary people, just like everyone else, I cannot do as a perfect. If so, it will be too hard and tough.
Many times I was hurt by those words and I often said to myself that next time I should speak out what I was thinking about. But till that moment, I felt that I cannot say anything, even though the words have already in my mind. To be honest, I have no idea why I didn’t say anything to express my anger.
But fortunately, when the similar thing happened, I did it and made it. Just about three years ago, I went to Michigan State University for a summer camp. At that time, I was only a new student of a high school. I hoped that I can make some friends through this camp. Two days was gone, there was still nobody talking to me actively. I was totally invisible. Did I do something wrong? I was always thinking about the question.
“Hey, guys, look, that girl is stilling alone. So bad. She is totally the shadow of the teachers. Why do those teachers like to talk to her, not us?” Suddenly I understood that why they didn’t like to talk to me. They treated me as a myrmidon of the teachers. I went forward to them and said:” Listen, guys, I would like to make friends with you. But you guys totally ignore me. I am not a secretary or shadow of the teachers. I just don’t be alone.” I cried, maybe because I have spoken out the words which have hidden in my heart for a long time. However, the tears and the words did work. They didn’t say the bad things behind me anymore. And I have made a couple of friends during the summer camp. To me, this summer camp seemed significant. I overcame myself and spoke out the words I wanted to say which I never did before.
Why don’t we speak out what we want to say? If we do, it really can help us solve those tough problems.
Feeling the same ( Thanh Tran-Terry)
Before reading the article, I have thought so much about the title “Long overdue”. Could it be something that the author can’t stand for a long time, something really bad, something that really hurts her inside heart. After reading, I have found down what happened to her. As a half Arab person, she felt so angry when people said bad things about Arabian but she couldn’t say anything to them to prove that it was not like what they thought about Arabian. None of any words came out of her mouth. She kept that hurt for a long time and said that it a “Long overdue”. The article made me remember one of my friends who felt the same with her. He is an Indian guy. He is really a nice friendly person. I like talking with him and we often share with each other. One time, he told me “Terry, you know what, some American people said they do not like Indian because our bad smell from food. I felt very angry but I couldn’t say anything because I did not want to make trouble”. A sadness came on his face. He knew that not most of Indians have bad smell. He told me it touched his patriotism. I have thought a lot about what he has said to me. I know that I and him, we are international students. Sometimes we can hear something really bad about our countries but we couldn’t do anything because of making trouble is not good for us. I felt the same with the author that it hurts inside heart. I want to change it from now. I want people to know the truth.
Long Overdue(Hearim Lee)
Sep 25, 2009
a regretfull memory
It was one day before holiday when I studied in high school. That day, I was going to home for holiday by coach bus. Bought the ticket, I was walking to the waiting room. The waiting room is pretty empty. It would be a good news for me because there were few passengers that I can choose a good seat on the bus so I could have a comfortable trip. Suddenly, a middle-aged man walked by me with a strong hit. I turned around and found that he was also staring at me, too. He was oval face, with foxy eyes, and in a dark, plain jacket. I felt so strange that the ground was so empty, why he just hit me. There was an indescribable feeling around me but I didn’t understand.
When the bus began running, I found my cellphone was missed. At that time, I finally found that my cellphone was stolen by that mysterious man. I think it was a long, long overdue for me. If I focused on that man’s hand, my cellphone might never be stolen. I’ve already felt that man strange but didn’t do anything. What a regretful mistake! How I want the time go back and I would kick his ass out of the earth if possible.
Sep 24, 2009
Missing after "Long Overdue"
Sometimes I just miss my people. I wanted to go back. I really want to tell my family but stones stuck in the throat. After calling my people, I had the same idea that in the “long overdue” by Naomi Shihab Nye “but I am always thinking of the times I said nothing”. I miss my people who I can tell everything to them, and I missed them in some sense. One of my friend left me a message that she wanted me to go back China and she had some problem but nobody could be told. The satire is I can’t go back as everybody can see. And I so much hate it.
Anyway, I hope I can find a way to solve the problem. I miss my people and I am missing them.
"Long Overdue" essay (Yalin Hsiao)
Sep 21, 2009
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